Sunday, October 02, 2005

Life's beaten path lacks a view

The future holds untold tales of the magnificent and the minuscule. There is something enormously hope inspiring in the immeasurable potential which the vast future holds. As youth we more often then not, see this potential as infinite. As we emerge from this time of wonder and hope into an age of harsh reality and seemingly ever increasing responsibility, we tend to lose our youthful air of optimism. It seems to be swept away in the quickening current of the modern lifestyle. I see all that I love dearly in humanity eroded gradually and almost inevitably by the everyday world. All those things that I find awe inspiring and fundamentally beautiful seem to be lost by even the best examples to the world. Curiosity, dreams, hopes, passion, desire for a better world, are just a few of those beautiful things. I would most simply describe this beauty as youth in a metaphysical form.

We lose morale in our struggle against the mundane and typical work-to-live formula. It seems our everyday encounter with the 9-5 engrains a notion of inevitability into our minds. The archetypal existence of the capitalist worker bee becomes so familiar to us that we see it as the safe route. This would undoubtedly and truthfully be the safest route to take in life. However, as comforting as this safety is, it acts not unlike the comforter does when you pull it up over your head to hide from the frightening and mysterious darkness.

In fact I like that metaphor. The path of the archetypal existence is just like pulling the comforter over your head. It provides us with a comfort but prevents us from what could be a much more fulfilling existence, an existence full of potential. Now, I must say that this an observation made in generalities. I do not doubt that some of the most fulfilling lives have been lived in the most basic and typical ways. Despite the idea of fulfilment being almost completely relative to the desires of the individual, I am going to argue that most often then not, those who find themselves unfulfilled in life have taken all the right steps, just down the wrong path.
The path I speak of is that of the mundane. A self absorbed, numbed, tunnel vision existence, which seems to be the direct product of our modern Western society. There I go using the broadest terms possible again. I am aware of this, but I have confidence in the intelligence of those reading this. I am referring specifically to the institutions of influence that shape our view of what is normal. The one that I see is the most powerful source of this hegemonic influence in all of our lives. It works hand in hand with the culture of our time reflecting and reinforcing all the while shaping it. It is a symbiotic relationship of sorts.

This influence that our culture undergoes helps reinforce this consistent loss of youth in us. Those of us currently in our studies at university are at a major cross road. We can decide what we wish to do with our limitless potential and new found knowledge. We can take new paths or even make them. We can stay true to our ideals and make real impacts on not only those immediately around us, but impacts that resonate throughout humanity and stretch forth across time. Do not doubt for a second that this is possible. No matter how logical or well reasoned an argument about the future is, it is never certain. There are many who would doubt one person’s potential for greatness. There are also those who would argue the futility of resistance against taking the beaten path. These are only a few of the many who have lost that spark of youth.

The goal of this posting was to help inspire the desire to retain that spark. Perhaps, it may have even rekindled that spark. Please, if anything just be aware that the world will slowly and very subtly wear your gleaming former self down. Do not give in to the pressures of the world. Do not forfeit your goals and aspirations to follow the beaten path. Reach self actualization, and then turn around to see the young you smile as proud as can be.

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

This past weekend I was a Leadership Developer at a conference run in Peel, primarily for those students who are on their respective Student Governments in their schools. This is the second time I have attended the conference as a Leadership Developer (LD), hoping to pass on my experience, my knowledge, my passion, my leadersip abilities.

The day went on as planned - the 9oclock start on a Saturday morning received little warmth from the delegates, as well as the other LD's. But a cup of coffee, a few introductions later, a few games played, and toss in a motivational speech, and we were ready to go.

My partner and I were given a group of 12 students who were Presidents of their school. We told them everything they needed to know to run a successful government, giving them our experiences to feed off of. By the end of the day, they did learn a lot, each and every one of the delegates coming to me, thanking me for giving them this knowledge. It was nice to see students with the similar drive that I used to have.

The conference ended at approxmiately 5oclock, and as I was heading home, a not-too-close friend of mine told me his car had died and he needed a boost. My car didn't have the power needed to boost his 89 Honda Accord, so I ended up driving him home.

And so the story begins.... This friend of mine is a year younger than me, and the respect we have for each other is unbelievable. It's very rare that I meet people younger than me who I put on the same level as me, let alone above me, but he is definitely one of those people. Throughout highschool, I had never met a person more dedicated to becoming a leader, and attempting to make a change - anywhere. And since we never went to the same shcool, it would be days like these - conference days - where I would be able to meet with him, and talk to him about his plans, and my plans, and what we were going to do with our lives. And throughout the car ride home, I gave him my advice about university, the same schtick I give to everyone who is struggling. I was giving him my experience of any subject that came about, whether it be school, girls, leadership, etc. Then the moment came when he hit me with something hard. He looked over and said "You know, I don't have that drive anymore. I don't have that passion. I just feel drained."

Now hearing him say this was like hearing Michael Jordan say he's retiring from basketball. It's like hearing Denzel say he doesn't wanna be an actor, or Tupac sayin he can't rap anymore. Hearing him say he has lost the motivation was huge. It hurt me, and I could see it was hurting him.

So we began discussing why this was. I obviously felt the same way when I left highschool. I still had the drive, I still had the passion, but as days went by, it kept getting smaller. And here we were, so called, "Leadership Developers" when we have done little in the past year to lead. We were at the conference today teaching our successors how to lead, when we've been so far away from it for the last little while. So with that in mind, I used that as an argument. I said, you know what, the fact that we came today and showed people how to be leaders, that showed that the spark is still alive in us. It may be buried under papers we're forced to write, or the midterms we choose to (or not to) study for - but nevertheless it's still there.

So I told my friend, it takes time. Everything in this world takes time. I think everyone is a leader, everyone is born with that potential - namely the potential to make a change. But just like I said, it takes time to develop, or in our case, redevelop. And I believe time is on our side, but not for long. I think what I'm getting at is we need to start doing something. As vague as that is, it is universally applied. We need to start doing something.

I'm hoping I didn't peak in highschool. And for the sake of this world, I'm hoping none of us did. If the amount we accomplished in highschool was just a minor hint of our potential, I hope we realize we have the ability to do a lot. So in ending, let's just keep the fire burning. If it means that you have to throw some twigs on it to make sure there's still some substance (in my case this would be attending a Leadership Conference), than you know what, that's what we have to do. Little steps, big dreams...they coincide more than we can even comprehend. Hey, after all, we need to start doing something, right?

3:13 PM  
Blogger SilentFrank said...

My friend, I always find inspiration in you. I find solace in the dreams you dream. Each of us who has these coinciding dreams finds at one point or another, a loss in enthusiasm. For the task we wish to undertake has no formula. It is not a task easily undertaken. I am glad you were able to so quickly bounce back from being discouraged. I am so happy that you bothered to share that story with us. Or just me, depending on whether others actually come here. I think we can feed off of each other. The motivation we need can not only come from within but also from without.
I am also extremely excited about our first collaborative effort. This will bring the public a much needed forum for discussion. It will spark a fire similar to ours in many others. We are going to take this idea and run with it. Change is just around the corner. We have four of the best people I could think of working on this thing. Just think of the domino affect it could cause.

11:09 PM  

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